Discomfort and Busting Loose
Yesterday I was on a walk listening to some podcasts and had a good idea for what to write about this week. But then today, all that creative inspiration is gone and instead I feel blocked. I woke up from…
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Words Are Very Unnecessary (When Dealing with Anxiety)
The biggest thing that happened this week is something I really don’t want to talk about. I decided to get new tires on my car and the cost was more than I anticipated. It triggered all my money anxieties and…
Podcast – Kink Deep Dive with Brittany Giese
I was a guest on the Welcome to My Chair podcast this week and talked about kink, bdsm, twin flames, conscious relationships, and personal growth.
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Twin Flames: What Are They Really?
A reader emailed me and asked if I had any thoughts on Twin Flames. It turns out I do. I asked her if she had any specific questions and she sent me this: I started to write a blog post…
Can Spirituality and BDSM Exist Together?
I received a very thoughtful question from one of my readers about spirituality and its relationship with sex, kink, and BDSM. I thought I’d share the exchange (with permission) for others to see. Maybe it can provide some insight. Her…
What My Self Love Practice Looks Like These Days
So what’s my morning routine like these days? How many hours am I meditating? How many books do I read? Truth is I can’t seem to maintain anything for very long because I respond differently as soon as I get…
Professional Cuddling & Sexual Healing
I’ve been doing quite a bit of research and experimenting with desire and the guilt that I often carry with it. Two people who have inspired me lately is Marcia B and Betty Martin. I have recently read Richard Unger‘s book…
Physical Attraction is So Weird
I’ve been so fascinated with physical attraction these days. You know, chemistry, sparks, crushes, and butterflies. That sorta thing. Why do I feel that with one woman I’d consider “cute” but not with one I’d consider “hot.” I could even…
Relationships Are a Reflection of You
I’ve been reflecting on the short love relationship I recently ended. I learned a lot about how I was not respecting myself, enduring painful triggers because I thought it was “good for me” to help me learn. But it was a few dreams…
32 Self-Date Ideas
After the breakup, all I could was think about her. I contacted lots of friends and realized I was kinda running away from myself. My thoughts went from, “how do I win her back” to “how do I take care…